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Smile, Smile, Smile! But why?

We are under a constant propaganda onslaught to keep smiling or, in fancier language, to maintain a positive outlook”. TV gurus and song lyrics drum the demand into our heads, and we echo them, telling ourselves things like Mustnt grumble! and Look on the bright side!

The keep smiling agitprop goes back a long way at least a century. In 1914 men were marched to the slaughter like docile lambs to the cheerful strains of "Pack All Your Troubles In Your Old Kit Bag and Smile, Smile, Smile! And in 1932, in the depths of the Great Depression, another hit snarled: "Smile, Darn Ya, Smile!!!"

Dale Carnegies classic How to Win Friends and Influence People appeared in 1936. His first two pieces of advice were dont criticize, condemn or complain and give honest and sincere appreciation. How can you always be honest and sincere if you have to be appreciative, whatever your true feelings may be? Dont ask me!

The entertainment industry is celebrated as the pacesetter of nonstop smiling in the Irving Berlin song Theres No Business Like Show Business:

There's no people like show people.

They smile when they are low.

The second verse elaborates:

You get word before the show has started

That your favorite uncle died at dawn.

Top of that, your ma and pa have parted

You're broken-hearted, but you go on.

From this I infer that you might be let off smiling duty if a parent rather than just an uncle has died. You might get a few days family leave. But when you return your smile must be firmly back in place.

Besides show business, smiling is a condition of employment in all service jobs involving contact with the public (and to a lesser extent in many other jobs). A waiter, air steward, hotel receptionist or croupier, for example, is expected to keep smiling, however irritating, rude or unpleasant a customer may be to him or her. I am just not as good at faking that smile as I used to be, bemoans one service worker. So why do we have to smile?

The song lyrics dont really explain. Smiling is simply required by fashion:

Dont start to frown; its never in style

Just do your best to smile, smile, smile!

We are also told: Smile and the world smiles with you. In other words, look unhappy and the world will give you the cold shoulder. I suppose its true to some extent: I have enough troubles of my own, thank you, dont burden me with yours! But what does that say about our way of life?

One curious rationale for smiling is the urban legend that more facial muscles are used in frowning than in smiling (exact figures vary). Smiling saves effort. According to Dr. David H. Song, the claim is false: a smile uses 12 muscles, a frown only 11 (http://www.straightdope.com/columns/040116.html). In any case, isnt exercising as many different muscles as possible supposed to be good for us?

If you take Dale Carnegies advice and dont criticize, condemn or complain about anyone or anything, then you will never develop a critique of the social system or an aspiration to change it. Ultimately, I suspect, that is what the smile propaganda is about. It serves the interests of those who do not have much to complain about themselves but who are natural targets of others complaints. That means: the most privileged and powerful section of society.

STEFAN